Netweaving Your Way to Your MBA (Massive Bank Account)!

Written by admin on September 17, 2008 – 7:18 pm -
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Wow, I’m so excited and thrilled that I was asked to participate in Donna Cutting’s blog tour to showcase her new book “The Celebrity Experience!”  I’m going to be writing a book review on this book as well, so please be sure to check back for that as well.  Let me begin this by saying, this is one of the most well-written books on customer service that I have experienced!  This should be a “must-read” for every entrepreneur, no matter what stage your business is in and I highly recommend that you follow the links at the bottom of this post and get your very own copy!  I’ll keep the rest for the book review - which will be tough because it’s hard for me to keep a secret when I find good information to share!  It is my pleasure to now give the rest of this space to Donna Cutting, who is guest blogging for me today!

         

In 1987 I was part of the first full-fledged acting troupe for the Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire. We descended on the town of Lititz, PA in June for two months of rehearsals before the Faire began. Thirty or forty actors were housed in what used to be a Lutheran Church on the corner of 501 and West Orange Street. There, for two months, we lived, laughed, ate, slept, rehearsed and took lessons in stage combat, Elizabethan culture, history and dialect, and improvisation.

Twenty years later as I prepared to write The Celebrity Experience: Insider Secrets to Delivering Red-Carpet Customer Service, an improvisational game we used to play in our rehearsal hall (the old church sanctuary) called “Yes And.” In this game, two actors would be in a circle and one would start a scene. He’d say something like “Ah, my long lost brother, I have looked so long and hard to find you.” The second actor would say “Yes and . . ,” then add to the scene. For instance, “Yes and I have been abroad and seen the most fascinating sights.” The first actor would respond with “Yes and . . . ” – you get the picture.

The idea was to teach us to ADD to a scene, not “negate” it or “neg” the other actor (as we liked to say.) If the second actor had replied, “I’m not your long lost brother,” the scene would go nowhere.  So it is with customer service.

When I asked myself, “How can we treat our every day customers like celebrities” the answer came – by saying YES more often. You see, the difference between you, me and Julia Roberts is that when Julia Roberts requests something the answer is always yes! No matter how unusual the request, everyone around her works to figure out how to make it happen. You might say they OWN her request.

So often the rest of us are used to hearing “No” from service professionals. How many times have we longed to hear “Yes, and I can help you with that problem,” only to hear instead, “Sorry, can’t help you” or “No, the policy is.” You call the mortgage company with a problem and they tell you to call the insurance company, who tells you to call the mortgage company, etc. The scene goes nowhere. You might say we constantly get “negged” when all we want is for someone to own the problem.

If you want to have a reputation for better customer service (and get more referrals in the process) consider using this old improvisational technique. The next time a customer comes to you with a problem, think “Yes and . . .,” then find a way to help them.

For instance:

  • A woman found that her grocery store was out of two items needed for a special meal she was preparing that night. A clerk got in his own car and drove to another store (in the same chain), picked up the two items and had them for the customer before she had checked out. She continues to tell everyone she knows about the outstanding service she received.
  •  The hospice nurse who knew her patient was upset he wouldn’t see his horse again before he died, and found a way to bring the horse to his hospital window so he could say goodbye. The family tells the story to this day.
  • A restaurant owner who started to turn away two customers when they arrived five minutes after closing. Instead, he invited them in and brought out everything that was still available in the kitchen. They had a grand time and have introduced no less than 30 people to that restaurant.
    These people are all masters of “Yes, and.” As a result, they’ve got loyal customers who are buzzing about their business or service.

The question is, how creative can you be when a customer comes to you with a dilemma? When you answer with a “Yes, and” you’ll find yourself with more buzz, more referrals, and more business.

Donna Cutting is the author of The Celebrity Experience: Insider Secrets to Delivering Red-Carpet Customer Service and a frequent keynote speaker on the topics of employee engagement and customer service.

This guest blog post was part of the beginning of a virtual blog tour for Donna’s book. You can read more about her book by visiting these blogs:

Teresa Morrow http://www.keybusinesspartners.com/2008/09/17/giving-your-customers-the-celebrity-experience/

Dr. Sally Witt www.drsallywitt.com

And tomorrow the virtual book blog tour continues at these blogs:

Beverly Mahone http://www.talk2bev.blogspot.com
Terry Booth http://nashvillerealestateblogger.com/
Denise O’Berry http://www.allbusiness.com/operations/3357-1.html

Follow this link to buy the book: Purchase Donna Cutting’s book

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Written by drsallywitt on May 21, 2008 – 8:55 pm -
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Carol Deckert is one of my favorite people on the planet. I first met her through LinkedIn, then the group LinkedIn Power Women.

After a bit, we started chatting on Skype. After I was asked to join Carol as a co-moderator of LinkedIn Power Women, we found that we not only had a lot in common, but we were actually typing in the same words at the same time to people!  We found that we react in a similar way to a lot of things.  It was so nice.

We have gone so far as to kid around that we are “sisters from another mother”!

In between the fun and support, we are actually working on projects together and helping each other grow business.

We became very close personally, and professionally.  Last week I had the honor of actually visiting one of Carol’s in person networking groups.  It was amazing to spend a good chunk of the day with someone that I know from online networking and phone calls.

Carol and I are living examples of networking, and netweaving, in action!

Carol Deckert and Dr. Sally Witt

Dr. Sally Witt on left, Carol Deckert on right (the cute one!!)

Stay tuned for video interviews with Dr. Sally and Carol, and more!

You can listen here to Carol’s interview on the Dr. Sally Show:

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/drsallywitt/2008/04/14/Carol-Deckert-good-friend-amazing-Networking-Coach

If you want to network with me, just try one or more of the sites below and add me as a friend!

Sally

Dr. Sally Witt Breakthrough Coach/Hypnotherapist

drsallywitt@gmail.com

215/736-0900

skype: drsallywitt

http://www.drsallywitt.com

www.blogtalkradio.com/drsallywitt

http://www.linkedin.com/in/sallywitt

http://twitter.com/drsallywitt

http://www.youtube.com/drsallywitt

http://activerain.com/drsallywitt

http://www.ojeez.com/drsallywitt

http://myspace.com/sallywitt

http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=688850804

http://www.ryze.com/go/drsallywitt

Feel free to send me an invitation to link, or to be a friend on any of the sites!

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Written by admin on May 21, 2008 – 6:46 pm -
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Good morning everyone!  Things have been a little quiet around here lately.  What have you all been up to?  Tell us about your latest networking event that you attended - online or offline - meet any new interesting people? 

Netweaving is really a lot of fun and it is the latest, best way to utilize your network.  You can position yourself as a Resource, a go-to person, if you will, one that has a massive contact list and knows just the right people for the right situation and is willing to share that information with others.  You could also position yourself as a Connector, one who helps others by introducing them to key people that may be needed to help develop their business to the next level, or may simply have a need for their services or products.  Either way, by helping someone else, focusing on others, your networking efforts are laser-sharpened and people will respond.  By doing these activities without the thought of what’s in it for me (WIIFM) and thinking of others instead, your payback will be bountiful somewhere in the near or possibly distant future.  You may never be able to attribute a growth in your business from one particular person or event, but you WILL benefit by paying it forward.  I’d love to see you all concentrate on doing that, see what the results are - I know you will be absolutely amazed!  Givers do gain - sometimes the gain is a whole lot more than financial wealth. 

A great example of netweaving is exactly what we are doing in our Skype Room network. When someone is having a problem with their blog, their Squidoo lens, their website, and they need advice on how to fix or solve their problem, they turn to one of us.  We are here to help one another!  Do we expect to be financially paid for our help - no, for the most part, we don’t.  We simply help one another and by helping one another, we all grow.  There are exceptions to this when two people contract with each other to work together and that’s perfectly okay - there’s nothing saying that services and/or products cannot be paid for - we are running businesses!  But the paying it forward opportunity excels right here, in this network.   I hope you are all aware of the rich contacts you have made  here and will continue to help one another - together we will all grow and be wildly successful! 

If anyone is interested in joining our Skype Room Connections, please feel free to visit http://www.runlancaster.com/skype-room/networking   You do need to have Skype installed on  your computer (it’s a free service, you are able to talk computer to computer anywhere in the world, free!) and please be sure to develop your profile on Skype!  As a community, there is a lot of great information that is shared with others and we would love to have you participate too!  We also have a community blog, one where we can each contribute on a subject that is helpful to others - visit http://www.passionprojectblog.com and meet some of the awesome contributors!  We also welcome your comments and your help in generating conversations!

So now tell me - who have you connected lately?  Have you helped someone grow their business by connecting them with someone in your network or have you helped them solve some sort of problem with their business?  If you are looking for some help for yourself or your business, the easiest way to ask is to start with “who do YOU know WHO . . .” and netweaving begins!  Keep it moving forward and help someone else - share your knowledge, time or talents!

I invite you to join in the conversation here, post your comments and let us get to know more about you!  And if you need some help, I’m always available - contact me by Skype (Deckert1116) or email or via the blog or my website - http://www.runlancaster.com

I’m looking forward to learning more about you and your business!  Make it an awesome day - help someone - you’ll be glad you did!

 

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